Can you tell me now you're the lucky one?

"Another name goes up in lights, You wonder if you'll make it out alive

                     And they'll tell you now you're the lucky one, but can you tell me now you're the lucky one?"

When you find the right person, you'll see how much they love you just by how they look at you. It's true, I've felt it.

They'll show you the kind of love that you thought only existed in those sweet, heartfelt country songs. They'll have you feeling like you're one of the best things that has ever existed on this earth. They'll leave you in disbelief, making you question why you ever put up with all those toxic relationships from your past. But it's okay, because when you find the right person, you'll finally know what it feels like to be loved the way that you deserve.

When the right person looks at you, it transcends a simple glance. It's a gaze that feels like a gentle homecoming after a long, winding journey. Their eyes hold a profound warmth, a silent testament to a love that understands and cherishes every facet of your being. It's a visual embrace, a quiet acknowledgment that says, "You are seen, you are safe, you are loved." This isn't the fleeting intensity of infatuation, but a steady, comforting light that resonates deep within your soul. It’s the kind of love that echoes through the heartfelt melodies of sweet country ballads, painting vivid pictures of devotion and belonging. In their gaze, you feel as precious as a rare and exquisite gem, held with tenderness and admiration. Looking back, you might find yourself gently questioning the shadows of past relationships, unable to reconcile their dimness with this radiant, all-encompassing light. 

When you find the right person, you'll know.

And there is only one way to tell that someone is truly the love of your life, and it is this: they make you the best possible version of yourself that you can be. This is what separates terrible relationships from great ones, because chemistry is usually not the differentiator. It's not about who that person is; it's about who that person makes you.

With the right person, you will never feel like a forgotten melody in the cacophony of a crowded symphony. Every note of effort you contribute to the relationship, whether it's a grand, sweeping gesture or a small, subtle act of kindness, will be heard and deeply appreciated. Their gratitude won't be a mere formality, but a genuine acknowledgment of your thoughtfulness. It will be conveyed in their words, their actions, and the consistent warmth in their eyes – a constant, gentle reminder of your inherent value and the significance of your contributions. You will feel truly seen, your efforts recognized and cherished, fostering a sense of mutual respect and admiration.

More profound than the initial spark of chemistry, the love of your life acts as a steady and enduring flame, illuminating your path toward becoming the most authentic and best version of yourself. It isn't about the fleeting excitement of surface-level attraction, but the deep, abiding comfort of being seen, truly seen, for the entirety of who you are, flaws and all. This love acts as a powerful catalyst for personal growth, inspiring you to shed old limitations and embrace new possibilities. It isn't about them becoming the sole focus of your existence, but rather about walking alongside you, on separate but congruent paths, their presence a constant source of inspiration and unwavering support as you both journey towards your individual dreams and aspirations.

So, how do you know that you've got the right one?

Initially, a natural instinct to protect yourself might surface. You might hesitate, with a subtle tension in your posture, as you consider revealing the intricate and sometimes messy tapestry of your being. The quirky threads that make you unique, the hidden insecurities that whisper doubts, the lingering shadows of past hurts – you might fear these truths will dim their light or cause them to retreat. But the right person possesses a patient and unwavering acceptance. Their gentle persistence will be a steady invitation, a soft beckoning to step out of the shadows and into the warmth of their understanding. Slowly, hesitantly at first, you’ll find yourself beginning to unfold, like a delicate flower reaching for the sun.

Sharing your vulnerabilities with the right person will feel less like a burdensome confession and more like the natural shedding of an old, outgrown skin. As you speak, their attention will be a quiet intensity, their gaze unwavering, their presence a comforting anchor. They absorb your words not just with their ears, but with their heart, understanding the intricate pathways that have led you to this moment. Their empathy will be palpable, a silent acknowledgment of your journey. And then, in the aftermath of sharing, will come the tangible assurances of their love – a comforting embrace, a soft kiss on your forehead, a silent promise of unwavering support. In these moments, your initial fear will melt away, replaced by a profound and comforting sense of safety and belonging.

How do you truly identify this person, the one meant to walk alongside you? Well, with them, it won't be some anxious race for who can appear to care less. The silence of your phone will no longer torment you with questions of what you might have done wrong. Instead, there will be an ease, a natural flow of communication. They will give you their time freely and willingly, and you will never be left in a state of confusion about their feelings. You will know they love you when you're lying in bed, ready to face the day, and they gently pull you closer, murmuring, "Don't go, let's just stay here together."

You'll find yourself sharing stories about them with your friends, the kind of stories you always tell, but this time without that underlying current of trying to win someone over. These will be genuine anecdotes of afternoons spent laughing in the park, the thoughtful flowers they brought you, and the sweet texts that greet you in the morning.

Everything will finally be in the open, bathed in honesty. You won't fret about whether they'll like your friends because you'll simply know they will. The topic of your family won't be something to avoid; instead, they'll express a genuine hope to meet them someday. You won't harbor worries that the inconveniences and realities of your everyday life will somehow fracture the precious connection you share. They will want to be a part of it all, to meet every facet of your world, because they understand it's all an extension of you.

They will remember your special days, not out of obligation, but with genuine excitement to celebrate you. They will be eager to see you, their touch a familiar and comforting language you never tire of. You won't be afraid to wake up looking less than your best, because they see you through the same loving lens you offer them. Even mundane tasks, like a trip to the grocery store, can transform into a shared adventure. With them, you'll have the privilege of seeing yourself through their adoring eyes, finally understanding that in every way you find them wonderful, they feel the very same about you. There will be no guessing games, no gnawing insecurity, just a steady current of inspiration, shared passion, and a profound sense of warmth. That, in its quiet certainty, is how you know you've found true love.

Ultimately, the true mark of finding your soulmate isn't about losing yourself in the relationship, but rather discovering a renewed investment in yourself. This connection fosters growth, compelling you to confront old wounds and limiting beliefs. In their presence, you're not just loved; you're inspired to evolve, to break free from what holds you back, and to become both a newer and truer version of yourself. This is the profound power of a love that lasts.